tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post760614161245475212..comments2024-03-17T05:43:47.360-07:00Comments on Gwen Moss: dealing with loss (and finding magic at Christmas)Leslie Harrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06367872267145012395noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-14192430186828838292015-12-22T14:03:35.665-08:002015-12-22T14:03:35.665-08:00What a beautifully touching post. I feel that God ...What a beautifully touching post. I feel that God led you to that very spot you landed in to find a copy of that book. My heart goes out to your friend who lost her daughter.<br /><br />It's been three years (Dec. 9th) since I lost my dear husband. We were married for 43 years and I miss him daily. At first the grief was almost unbearable, but as time has gone on, God has been my strength and the grief is less. There are still times I cry, but there are times I also laugh. Love is such an amazing thing and it goes on forever. We will be together again one day.<br /><br />Have a lovely Christmas ~ FlowerLadyFlowerLady Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17678852154334714784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-54676425159117112402014-12-15T16:26:20.298-08:002014-12-15T16:26:20.298-08:00Such a kind, beautiful & thoughtful post Lesli...Such a kind, beautiful & thoughtful post Leslie, I loved reading it....you always have such wisdom & insight into the big issues. Thank you for sharing this XxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07435722126028910012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-69151171699104789022014-12-10T08:39:49.424-08:002014-12-10T08:39:49.424-08:00Dear Leslie,
Thank you for this post. Our family i...Dear Leslie,<br />Thank you for this post. Our family is dealing with the loss of our Grandma and my dad is not feeling well at this time. Very hard for my mom, because she lost her mom and now my dad, is not feeling well.<br />Thank you for the honesty about life. And the encouragement.<br />Carla<br />Carla from The Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12107829617899979937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-89832241623224181152014-12-10T08:20:30.420-08:002014-12-10T08:20:30.420-08:00Thank you for writing and sharing this post. Obvio...Thank you for writing and sharing this post. Obviously it strikes a chord to hearts of many of your readers. Once again, your story proves there is no such thing as a coincidence:) I love Anne Morrow Lindberg's writings and will be looking for my own copy of the book you mentioned.<br />Paulaauntphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00734297586761806420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-84479625713891979932014-12-09T19:35:41.012-08:002014-12-09T19:35:41.012-08:00P.S. My prayers are with your friend in the loss o...P.S. My prayers are with your friend in the loss of her daughter. It's just not the pattern of life and this type of loss is almost unbearable.<br /><br />xo<br />PatGypsy Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08776584538863129486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-90460495211057715222014-12-09T19:33:27.183-08:002014-12-09T19:33:27.183-08:00Well, I'm sitting here in tears...and that'...Well, I'm sitting here in tears...and that's ok. Loss is huge in my life ~ not just because of Abby but a few other things. D, my first love, passed away on the 4th after a very short illness. There were circumstances all these years that did not permit us to be together. So many things I wanted to say to him...and probably the same from him to me. I almost, almost called him recently and didn't. That makes me feel sad that I didn't take that step. The visitation for him is tomorrow evening and the service is Thursday morning. I just can't do it! I haven't been to a funeral since Abby's service and I don't mean to be disrespectful to the family. I know it's not about me but there are a few other reasons too.<br /><br />Long story short, thank you so very much for sharing this and for your kind and wise words. I'd love to have the passage from the book. I posted this on Facebook and will also share with you ~ a bit of "Some people will like you for no reason, some people synchronicity...<br /><br />“I do believe in an everyday sort of magic—the inexplicable connectedness we sometimes experience with places, people, works of art and the like; the eerie appropriateness of moments of synchronicity; the whispered voice, the hidden presence, when we think we’re alone.”<br />~ Charles de Lint<br /><br />xo<br />PatGypsy Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08776584538863129486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-66550159344721009592014-12-09T19:02:27.574-08:002014-12-09T19:02:27.574-08:00So piercingly beautiful.
You share your story with...So piercingly beautiful.<br />You share your story with such heart. Isn't it amazing the way God uses our broken pieces?<br />Thanks so much for sharing.Shannan Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06240696987027358314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-3554716259143094352014-12-09T03:14:16.744-08:002014-12-09T03:14:16.744-08:00With every beat of my heart. Leslie...my beloved D...With every beat of my heart. Leslie...my beloved Dad passed away 3 years ago this christmas and I miss him so much still...your post is so beautiful and sensitively written and I would very much like you to send me the quote...<br />my email is catherine@catherinerobinsoncashmere.com<br />To lose a child must be unbearable your friend is in my prayers.<br />Wishing you and your family a very happy christmas and peaceful new year...with my love xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04795237470320273611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-71291921358725158652014-12-08T22:40:24.538-08:002014-12-08T22:40:24.538-08:00Beautifully written Leslie. And I KNEW you were go...Beautifully written Leslie. And I KNEW you were going to find that book. Yes your post speaks to me. Tomorrow I'm going to visit my aunt in London who lost her son in a car accident we had in Sydney in 1978 and it will be terribly sad. I always think he is hovering behind us, always has been, all these long years.<br />XxcatThe Divorced Lady's Companion to Living in Italyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15202093107784073194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-33663601935627596792014-12-08T20:25:04.600-08:002014-12-08T20:25:04.600-08:00Leslie, I can most certainly relate to this post. ...Leslie, I can most certainly relate to this post. With the loss I've faced in the past year, I'm trying my best to concentrate on gratitude during the holidays. Reflecting upon all the joy my mother, aunt, and close friend gave to me throughout the years continues to fill my heart with gratitude. I smile as I linger beside the tree, knowing which ornaments hold the most special memories. I was blessed to have these women in my life. My heart aches that they are no longer physically here, but it also feels their love.<br />Thanks for a thoughtful, timely post.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01873375271470225199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-24908440437408900332014-12-08T20:10:03.118-08:002014-12-08T20:10:03.118-08:00Mom has been gone 13 years last month, so much has...Mom has been gone 13 years last month, so much has happened since then and I miss her so. I know she is happy so that makes it a little easier but I did grieve for her for a while but know she wouldn't want that for me. Thanks so much for the great post!Something Nice and Prettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07672141781621068025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-4625429993037287242014-12-08T19:23:41.269-08:002014-12-08T19:23:41.269-08:00Thanks, Leslie, for a great and timely post. Our ...Thanks, Leslie, for a great and timely post. Our first Christmas here in a not quite finished house (in the trailer still) and I am finding this Chrstmas is tough. The places and people are totally changed for the first time in 12 years. I am feeling it deeply to be away from my son and friends I cherish. I know this is also an opportunity to start new ways of celebrating and finding community. I can't feel or even imagine this woman's pain and loss. I pray she finds her way through a very difficult time. So sad. It's good to read you found the book, Anne Morrow Lindeberg writes so poignantly about real life, I hope this lady finds comfort in her words. I have. Patty/NSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-40760645696395320132014-12-08T16:39:40.977-08:002014-12-08T16:39:40.977-08:00Leslie, thank you for this. It is so real and so i...Leslie, thank you for this. It is so real and so important. We get caught up in the decorating, the baking, the parties and it is only once you stop and think about those around you that are hurting. It is so easy to do so but it is just as easy to do something to help them on their journey. I have felt so fortunate in my own family but I do have people close to me that have suffered the loss of children taken too early or cancer erasing the life of someone dear to them. A great reminder.Donna@anangloinquébechttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03074337849133414753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-60622182656395331422014-12-08T14:13:04.798-08:002014-12-08T14:13:04.798-08:00Leslie, this is such a poignant post. I have never...Leslie, this is such a poignant post. I have never lost a child, but I have walked through deep grief—and walked alongside others on their grief journeys. Your words are full of grace, encouragement, and truth. What a "God thing" that you found the book in time to share it with your friend. My prayers are with her family. I'm so glad you didn't shy away from "doing the awkward" but moved toward her even in her grief. I know she was blessed by your friendship.Susan Nowell @ My Place to Yourshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08220347296206361001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-17198344941566851572014-12-08T11:56:15.348-08:002014-12-08T11:56:15.348-08:00Leslie dear, I am so moved by your story. Followin...Leslie dear, I am so moved by your story. Following your heart to exactly where you needed to be and what you needed to find. You share your wisdom so eloquently. I feel you and I are kindred spirits in this way. Thank you for your kindest words on my blog today. They were JUST the words I needed to hear. As you know I've dealt with miscarriages and the loss of my during previous holiday seasons so I understand the quality of bittersweet that can creep in. I am so very sorry for the loss your friend experienced. What a gift are you and your loving heart to her. By the way, the middle name of our first baby was to be 'Grace'. Thank you for sharing this most thoughtful post. Yes, we will most definitely meet some day. :)<br />xx, Heather Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17032908426814046368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-60427352355521231302014-12-08T11:38:39.077-08:002014-12-08T11:38:39.077-08:00First off my dear … I just love you. Your ability...First off my dear … I just love you. Your ability to connect and convey deep emotion … always speaks to my soul.<br /><br />Having had in the past … my own bouts of grief … this post resonates with me to my core. <br /><br />I have also learned … sometimes out of deep pain … there can eventually a clearing where more beauty can be seen. i have come to realize … at this age … I most of the times can feel more than one emotion. Sometimes … it can be the feelings of loss … that open me up … to experience the tremendous beauty in a moment. <br /><br />Thank you my dear … for being a light … and sharing such grace and beauty … during a time … as you beautifully said … can cut both ways.<br /><br />I send you much love and appreciation.<br /><br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-78234277014850362172014-12-08T08:39:29.885-08:002014-12-08T08:39:29.885-08:00Thank you for sharing this. It truly helps me at ...Thank you for sharing this. It truly helps me at this very moment. My mother died 5 months ago, and my mother inlaw is dying at this moment. I am struggling with the emotions of it all, espcially during this holiday season. I have printed out this message from you, so I can re-read it as I need reassurance and comfort during these difficult times. Your gift for coming with the right words, at the right moment, have happened again. I am ever grateful.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02295822169141681152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-43279893504473957882014-12-08T07:10:01.387-08:002014-12-08T07:10:01.387-08:00Leave it to you Leslie to think of those that are ...Leave it to you Leslie to think of those that are suffering this time of year. Anyone that can call you a friend is very lucky. You are the most thoughtful person in the universe.cindy hattersley designhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16147135323683353754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-85656569141247411802014-12-08T06:57:46.817-08:002014-12-08T06:57:46.817-08:00OMG!!! What a beautiful post. You were clearly bei...OMG!!! What a beautiful post. You were clearly being "led" to that book for your friend. "Someone" clearly wanted her to read it.<br />I lost my Mum when she was only 49 and I was only 23 and Christmas was the most painful time for me. I also heard a very sad story just yesterday about death (someone who was again very young). It certainly puts some of the Christmas "manic-ness" into perspective xVannessa@Luxuriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13004543876391503184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-18119759914889510972014-12-08T06:49:04.232-08:002014-12-08T06:49:04.232-08:00I just ordered the Anne Morrow Lindbergh book on A...I just ordered the Anne Morrow Lindbergh book on Amazon, as she is one of my favorite authors and wrote my favorite book, "Gift from the Sea."<br /><br />Great post and helpful.Dayle ~ A Collection of Dayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01727194212928446402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-43597105470216264472014-12-08T05:42:56.063-08:002014-12-08T05:42:56.063-08:00Leslie,
Your way with words and the story they wea...Leslie,<br />Your way with words and the story they weave always leaves me feeling enlightened. I was touched to tears at your shared story of the woman who lost her daughter. This has happened to a couple of friends throughout the years and every mother can relate to that particular loss. Thank you for taking the time to extend your understanding and comfort to those that may not be having quite the merry Christmas season we all wish for friends and family.<br />xo,<br />KarenKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064699521293763744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-22189748905869309322014-12-07T23:33:18.248-08:002014-12-07T23:33:18.248-08:00Your blog is always like a breath of fresh air. M...Your blog is always like a breath of fresh air. My heart breaks for your friend's daughter. And you have a way with words that soothes us. I've been absent from the blog world, but glad I stopped by today! <br />KristiKristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13142694706893565452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-50146175088156078932014-12-07T23:33:16.274-08:002014-12-07T23:33:16.274-08:00A wonderful story. A hand was guiding you, for su...A wonderful story. A hand was guiding you, for sure. xxAndi's English Attichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04136573194920355678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-61437809696248544712014-12-07T23:20:56.619-08:002014-12-07T23:20:56.619-08:00As always, your posts leave me at a loss for words...As always, your posts leave me at a loss for words because I can't possibly word things in a cohesive way after reading. So much sadness for your friend and her loss. So much admiration for you understanding loss and the grieving process. I have had SO much loss in my family in the past 10 years, it was like a tsunami of deaths at once. I tend to hold things in. I think someday I will just burst. And in the case of one of my children and my husband...I just don't know where I would be.<br /><br />I pray for your friend and thank you for your wisdom.<br /><br />Jane xxxBlondie's Journalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12988377413260331618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5028673509424034947.post-20142117643470138332014-12-07T22:17:56.388-08:002014-12-07T22:17:56.388-08:00I simply can not fathom loosing my daughter. My mi...I simply can not fathom loosing my daughter. My mind shuts down and my chest cramps. My thoughts and prayers go out to that woman. <br />This is a very tough time of year for many people...without loosing a loved one. <br />Thank you for this lovely,heartfelt post. Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04723360304687997220noreply@blogger.com